// December 31st, 2009 // Loux Family News
Derek Loux Memorial Service
On Wednesday morning December 23, 2009, Derek R. Loux (37), a husband, father, musician, and justice advocate, went home to be with the Lord after a fatal car accident in Nebraska. Derek, a faithful servant of the Lord, was husband to Renee Loux for 17 years and father to ten children, several with special needs.
The Louxs’ two biological daughters, Sophia (12) and Michaela (9), were joined by five adopted daughters from the Marshall Islands: Telma (19), Teyolla and Keyolla (twins, 18), Leeann (15), and Sana (8). Of their three adopted sons from the Ukraine, Sasha (7), Ethan (6), and Silas (3), two have Down syndrome and one has spina bifida.
Late in the evening on December 22, after attending a training seminar on how to save children out of the sex slave industry, Derek and his friend Jonathan, began their return drive home from Colorado. They hit a patch of black ice as they drove through a Nebraska snowstorm, causing their vehicle to spin out of control and flip several times. Derek was not driving the car and was sleeping in an almost completely reclined position. Derek was wearing his seatbelt, but when the car flipped, Derek was literally sucked out of his lap belt. Because he was reclined, his shoulder harness was not tight enough to hold him. Jonathan and a witness of the accident immediately performed CPR on Derek while waiting for the ambulance. Derek was given several different drugs to revive him and after an hour, he regained a pulse. The doctor’s told the Loux family that Derek had been without a pulse for over an hour and that while being transported to a larger trauma care hosptial, his heart rate began to drop and he passed away.
Derek was part of the senior leadership team of the International House of Prayer of Kansas City (IHOP–KC) and served many areas of the missions base, including helping to pioneer Forerunner Music Academy. Before joining IHOP–KC, he served as the director of Indianapolis House of Prayer for four years. As a professional musician, singer, and songwriter, Derek recorded several CDs including Paper Religion and Fragrant Burning. He was also a worship leader and a frequent conference speaker.
Derek’s life passion was adopting and restoring orphans, particularly those with special needs. He pioneered the vision of the Orphan Justice Center, a haven of restoration for rescued orphans.
Kirk Bennett, director of IHOP–KC’s justice department, worked with Derek and the Orphan Justice Center. “Derek was a joyful husband and father. He is one of the most amazing champions of justice, adoption, and life that I have ever worked with. He was intensely and personally involved in bringing justice to many; he demonstrated the value of life to people and individuals so that they could experience their own value and freedom,” said Kirk.
Derek and Renee’s firstborn son, Josiah, a special needs child, passed away when he was 2½ years old. Josiah’s life and death opened the Louxs’ eyes to a whole new world of love for children with special needs. As a result, one of their dreams has been to buy approximately 45 acres on Blue Ridge Boulevard, Grandview, to build a “mansion of mercy” and therapy center for special needs children and the staff caring for them. Renee and the Loux children plan to continue their current efforts to help children, fulfilling this dream even in Derek’s death. For more detailed information about the Josiah project and how you can partner with the Loux family, go to www.josiahfund.org <http://www.josiahfund.org> .
Mike and Diane Bickle and the entire IHOP–KC staff will greatly miss Derek Loux, his excellent leadership, and his faithful friendship. Speaking of Derek, Mike Bickle says: “He was a faithful man who loved God and cared about people. He led worship teams, and helped start Forerunner Music Academy and the Orphan Justice Center. He was an integral part of our leadership and he will be greatly missed as a dear friend.”
Derek’s memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 2, 2010 at the IHOP–KC Forerunner School of Ministry building located at 12444 Grandview Road, Grandview, Missouri, 64030.
Service times are as follows: viewing, 10:00am–noon; memorial service (available by live webstream on IHOP.org/louxmemorial<http://www.ihop.org/louxmemorial> ), 2:00pm–4:30pm.
If you would like to assist the family at this tragic time, you may do so by mailing your tax-deductible financial gift to:
IHOP–KC
3535 E. Red Bridge Road
Kansas City, MO 64137
Please make checks payable to “SCCF” and write “IHOP–KC Benevolence Fund” in the memo line.
Checks may also be brought to the IHOP–KC Business Office at 3535 E. Red Bridge Road, Kansas City. If you would like to make a credit card donation, please call: 816.763.0200 x.2250




















Continuing to pray for your family…………
We have been praying for strength for you and the children today…you will continue in our prayers.
Rachel
I am speechless and brought to tears after looking over your blog and reading about Derek’s death. I’m so sorry. These are things we can’t understand with our human mind and I grieve with you. You have a beautiful family. God is faithful….
I just found your blog..I don’t know you…but I am grieving with you also…as the tears fall from my eyes. May God wrap his loving arms around you and your family and bring you the comfort and peace you seek in this most difficult time of your life…
My heart is aching for your family…I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to all of you… keeping you in my thoughts and prayers…
Lighting a candle in memory of Derek tonight in my household… Rest in Peace Derek
Hugs
Terri
Renee, I recently learned of Derek’s passing and my heart is broken for you and your family. You and I have passed comments on each other’s blogs and I just loved reading about your family and your ministry. I pray that God surrounds you with His peace and love like never before. I am reminded that we are promised nothing in this life and how short life really can be. Thank you for the encouragement that you and Derek and your family are. In His Precious Love, Stefanie
Tears tears Tears….running down my face for your awesome family. Its been a year since I “cyber met” your family. I emailed Renee on Thanksgiving Day because I had found out about a little girl in the Islands that needed a home. She was so sweet she actually emailed me back while cooking thankgiving dinner. I have learned so much following your journey and out look on life and faith this last year. I truly think you two made the cuttest couple and throw in all those beautiful children and it was like reading about a piece of heaven. I just re read this entire blog and the pictures of Derek with the boys are priceless.
sending your family hugs from our family
Oh Renee! I just read this news on one of our family’s blog…. I remember getting to know your family while in consideration of adopting another child and recalled the pure love and abundance of love in your marriage and family. May God’s hand hold you and your children through all of this time and give you comfort. You are a faithful woman and I know that God is ever present in your life…. this is a gift and blessing. Continuing to lift you in prayer – Robin Sizemore
I was an attendee of Urbana 09 and the International House of Prayer was praying for us by name. A series of circumstances led me to your blog … and I wanted to offer my deep condolences to the entire family. It was so beautiful to see the photos of the Disneyland trip and to know that those kids knew their daddy loved them. How inspiring his life was. God’s blessings on you at this time.
I just came across your site from RR & wanted to express my sorrow for your beautiful family. I am so sorry for your loss.
. Derek sounds like he was a truly amazing man, and finding your blog has given inspiration to troubles in my life, to not waste the time we have with those we love. Thank you, for that.
Oh Renee, we are so saddened by your loss. May God hold your hand and your children’s as you continue to raise them in his path.
Lauren Garabedian